How to Boost Your Bedroom from Okay to Orgasmic

Did you know that 2 in 3 people are in a sexual rut or bored with their sex life and more than 1 in 2 are too embarrassed to talk about what they want in bed with their partner. If you’ve been craving that sweaty, erotic, explosive experience then you are not alone. Speaking to our 50,000 users over the past 5 years we have rounded up 6 of the most effective ways to boost your bedroom from boring to breathless.  

1. Start with quality me-time 

• While this may sound counter-intuitive, better partner sex starts with better solo sex. Masturbating is self-care without the pressure to perform or please. 
• Dream about your favorite naughty fantasies with your partner in it
• Reach and discover new erogenous zones with a body-adapting vibrator like Crescendo
• Explore different stimulations with shower heads for a new genital and anal sensation
• Try discreet public masturbation with an app-controlled wearable vibrator like Poco
• Edge yourself - get close to orgasming, stop, repeat - have a mind-blowing finale 

Add to this, masturbation comes with a plethora of health benefits by getting your dopamines and endorphins flowing:

• Less stress
• Less anxiety
• Better sleep
• Stronger immunity
• Glowing skin & hair (really!)

We are the best person to turn ourselves on and the more we enjoy our bodies and the better we get at getting aroused - on our own and with our partners. Masturbating for the win!

2. Introduce wild & dirty foreplay

Great sex starts with great foreplay. Try these 5 simple steps (in this order) to get your partner ridiculously horny and wanting hot, sweaty sex. 

1. Sext sexy clips of things you want to do. Tease your partner wild with anticipation.
2. Play your fav porn in the background. Hearing others moan is a huge turn-on.
3. Whisper dirty talk in your partner’s ear. Tell them what you want to do. Then do it.
4. Use a blindfold. The mystery of what next will make ​​every touch feel extra electric.
5. Add a vibrator like Crescendo with 16 intensities, to experience a deep gradual build up.

Supercharge your foreplay with bendable vibrators like Crescendo or Poco by delivering precise stimulations in hot spots your partner never knew existed. 

3. Heighten sensations with erotic massage 

Erotic massage is the most luxurious form of foreplay and the best way to get ready for sex. Before you get started, transform your room into a sensual paradise:

• Prepare your bed by laying a big warm towel
• Make it dark, light it with a few scented candles
• Set the room temperature to 25C / 77F
• Play erotic music like this
• Get the massage oils warmed up and lubes ready.

Once you are all set, follow these 5 steps to make your partner’s body your playground of passion. 

1. Start with a good back, shoulder and neck massage. 
2. Move onto the nape of the neck, inner arm and behind the knee. 
3. Play with the breasts. Follow the orgasmic breast massage guide.
4. Massage the feet, then work your way up to the inner thigh. 
5. Work outside in. Play with the pubic mound and labia and then dive in when your partner is begging for climax. 

The best erotic massage is a delicate one. Use your fingertips, all 10 of them, to stroke with a floating touch, touching but almost not touching. Start slowly and build up intensity and pressure. Keep your strength for the explosive hand sex finish.

4. Mutual Masturbation

​​​​Watching her get off to you getting off is an incredible sexual experience. It’s also a great way to build up to hot, intense sex. Try these 5 steps for mind-blowing mutual masturbation:

1. Get started by lying side-by-side. Rest your leg over theirs. Face each other if you want to take it up a notch with deep eye contact.
2. In the background, play a short porn clip on repeat. Watching a sexy scene over & over reinforces arousal so the more you watch the hornier you get.
3. Have hand sex with each other. Grip, grab, go slow, go fast, circle, stroke, thrust. Use your hands as your free sex toy. 
4. Try next-level tease with an app-controlled wearable vibrator like Poco to control your partner’s stimulation.
5. Finish with an ultra-flexible vibrator like Crescendo, designed to mimic human fingers and deliver intense G-Spot, penis & anal orgasms.

Mutual masturbation with porn and sex toys is the perfect way to learn what drives your partner wild and release your inner voyeur & exhibitionist at same time.

 

5. Be Adventurous with New Sex Positions

The mystery of adventure is the difference between great sex and boring sex. Experiment with new sex positions and discover new angles and sensations you never knew could be so erotic with these 5 tips:

1. Make a list of places in the house to get naughty in. Check each one off as you get each other off during your sexcapade.
2. Elevate your sexcapade by playing Risque Roulette with MysteryVibe playcards. Spin a bottle in the middle of playcards. Indulge in whatever sexy position the bottle lands on. 
3. Try the “Champagne Room” sex position. A variation of Reverse Cowgirl. Level up and Roleplay to add spice to the fantasy. 
4. Get innovative and incorporate furniture during your playcard sexcapade adventure. (You’ll never look at your ottoman the same again.)

Heighten sensory stimulation with sex toys, like Crescendo, in Doggy Style, Spooning Sex, Missionary, or Cowgirl, for that explosive dual stimulation orgasm.

6. Kinkify Your Sex Life

Kink can elevate your bedroom experience by turning fantasies into reality. The possibilities to introduce kink into the bedroom are endless. Make your bedroom a kinky  playground with these 5 tips:

1. Power Play with your partner. Tie your partner's hands and feet to the bed with rope, restraints, or handcuffs. Make them submissive to your wicked fantasies.
2. Blindfold your partner. Lick their inner thighs. Caress their nipples. Bound and blind, keep them writhing and wondering when and where you’ll touch them next.
3. Bend your partner over your knee, or flip them on the bed and spank them. Set a rhythm. Spank them hard. Massage their sensitive cheeks, softly. Spank hard again. 
4. Edge your partner with orgasm denial. Arouse your partner to a near climax with intense vibrations from Crescendo’s 6x directional motors and 16 intensity settings. Change the speed, intensity, rhythm to prolong the exquisite agony. Do it until they are begging you for release.
5. Level up even more and dominate your partner in public with Poco using the free MysteryVibe app. Leave them completely at your mercy as you control their orgasm. Their pleasure, your way. 

Boosting your bedroom from boring to orgasmic starts can be an empowering and erotic adventure. Your pleasure is important, and so are you. Prioritize your pleasure with any of the ways above for a spicier, more satisfying sex life.